Your musical wedding: key moments not to be missed
Creating a musical atmosphere that reflects your personality can turn every moment of your wedding into a memorable experience.
From the moment guests take their seats at the ceremony to the last slow dance of the evening, each piece of music you choose plays a crucial role in your wedding experience. Music shouldn’t be seen as an accessory. It amplifies emotion, reflects both your personalities and your couple.
Before the ceremony: a gentle welcome
The musical atmosphere is already there when the guests arrive. It sets the general tone for the day. As guests settle in, a delicate soundtrack creates a hushed, elegant waiting effect.
Ideal for :
- Instrumental music (piano, harp, string quartet)
- Gentle covers of contemporary classics
- More intimate interpretations of French or English songs
Tip: if you’ve chosen a theme (bohemian, chic, rustic, Celtic, country), adjust your playlist so that it’s representative as soon as the first guests arrive.
During the ceremony: choose the pieces that suit you best
Certain moments in the ceremony absolutely must be accompanied by a specific piece of music. Here are the highlights to plan for:
Entrance of the bridal party and bride
Emotions run high. This musical moment often becomes one of the strongest memories of the day.
Suggestions:
- A significant song in your relationship
- An acoustic or orchestral version of a romantic classic
- Mendelssohn’s classic Wedding March
A thoughtful touch
Why not let the groom experience his moment and his entrance? You can opt for a personalized song and a choreographed entrance alongside his witnesses.
Signature and exit
After the exchange of vows, the moment of signing is an opportunity to return to the original atmosphere of the day. As for the bride and groom’s exit, follow it up with a joyful, dynamic track!
Possible moods :
- Upbeat popular (or original) song
- Symbolic piece evoking a new beginning
- Epic or folk instrumental, depending on the style of your event
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During the meal and the evening: vary the atmosphere without breaking the rhythm
After the ceremony, it’s time to celebrate! But be careful to strike the right balance between intensity and fluidity.
The meal: a warm atmosphere for conversation
Choose a pleasant background sound that doesn’t steal the spotlight from the conversation. This also means paying attention to volume.
Examples:
- Vocal jazz
- Retro soul
- Soft pop
At La Distinction, the acoustics of each of our rooms, including the Soprano and the Alto, allow us to adjust the volume perfectly for a harmonious ambience.
Ball opening and evening highlights
Choosing a song for your first dance deserves special attention. It’s your moment. Next, identify 2-3 other highlights: bride and groom’s entrance, father-daughter dance, cake, bouquet…
Think about :
- A personalized remix of your favorite songs
- A transition to the dance portion of the evening
The dance floor: adapted to your guests
The secret to a full house? A good reading of the crowd by your DJ or musician. Suggest a playlist in advance, but leave room for adjustment. Otherwise, you risk losing a lot of dancers very quickly.
Must-haves:
- Hits from the ’80s to today
- Great classics for all generations
- A few special requests from your guests (limit them to keep control)
Finally, who takes care of what?
Are you hesitating between DJ, orchestra or singer? Your budget, the venue, the theme and your couple’s personality will determine the outcome. When in doubt, combine the two. For example, a live musician for the ceremony and cocktail reception, a DJ for the evening. But don’t forget to budget. Remember to book between 9 and 12 months before your celebration.
Remember that music is a powerful thread. Well-chosen, it infuses your wedding with coherence, elegance and a unique touch of emotion. And above all, it can leave a lasting impression.
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