Should white be reserved only for the bride?
If you want to be the star of your big day, if you want to draw attention to yourself in the photos, yes, of course. White is reserved only for the bride.
However, sometimes a bridal party of bridesmaids will wear cream-colored dresses. They may even be white, but very simple, whereas the wedding dress will be very elaborate.
It’s up to you to decide and clarify what’s allowed, right from the invitation. Even if it’s to renew your wedding vows.
Specify the color theme on the invitation
Dare to personalize your mailing. Rather than a classic invitation:
- Location
- Date
- Address
- Choice of meal
- Number of guests
An introductory text detailing your color theme will avoid unpleasant surprises when guests arrive. This way, you can add all the colors you want and those you don’t (especially white).
Don’t hesitate to use clear phrases.
For example: only white accessories will be accepted, such as a scarf, belt or shoes. No clothing will be accepted.
Have a plan B if someone arrives in white
Leave out the diabolical plans. Bridesmaids are often heard whispering between the branches that they plan to make good use of red wine in case someone steals the show from the lady of the hour.
Let’s keep it classy, but let’s get creative. There are other ways. If you’re sending your invitations electronically, you can mention this too.
For example: anyone arriving at the wedding wearing white should wear a banner or T-shirt throughout the event.
- Choose them from the color palette of your theme or;
- With a written statement of your choice, which may have a humorous touch.
Make sure that some members of your bridal party keep an eye on the guests as they arrive.
Handle exceptions tactfully, but in the bride's best interests
There may only be one “rebellious” case, and that’s your great aunt Hortense, aged 75. If she arrives in a cream-colored blouse and skirt, perhaps you can let her pass. Be tactful and flexible in some cases.
However, if your cousin shows up with an unfamiliar conquest in a revealing white dress, the lack of courtesy may have to be handled differently. It’s all about discernment.
Why not allow your wedding guests to wear white?
That’s a completely different point of view, but even celebrities do it. Of course, we often name the couple Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck. They specifically requested that their guests be dressed in white. The result was spectacular!
You’ll be surprised, but you won’t have to worry about the colors. The fact remains that you can make restrictions. This is a suggestion for brides who feel confident and know that, despite everything, they will be the focal point of the day.
Who knows, maybe you’ve planned a sumptuous red dress, as is the tradition in Asia. Either way, you need to be sure that you won’t be overshadowed, because this is your moment.
