Intimate or grandiose, how do you choose?
What stage of wedding planning are you currently at? Theme, concept, choice of venue, season… and what about the number of guests?
There’s so much freedom these days when it comes to wedding planning! It’s entirely up to us to decide on the formula, and above all, the concept, whether it’s an intimate or grandiose celebration. Sometimes your family can be a bit of a pushover. Try teaming up with your partner to make this YOUR dream day.
By definition, what is an intimate wedding?
An intimate wedding can be defined as a gathering of more or less 50 guests. If you have large families and large circles of close friends, this will be quite a challenge.
Usually, this type of celebration is ideal when the opposite is true, and the choice of whether or not to include children is up to you.
Small risks to consider for this type of wedding
There will always be considerations for the last few places, especially if you’re renting a space with rooms and there’s a maximum number to be respected. For example, you may hesitate between long-time friends who tend to cancel and two other guests.
It’s possible that you’ll offend some people who hear about your wedding and aren’t on your list.
You’ll need to stick to your reasons and your starting list.
Your parents may pout about your choice. But it’s your choice.
What are the real advantages of weddings for 50 people or less?
Of course, economy can be an advantage if that’s your goal. Unless, of course, you want to spoil your inner circle! The other advantage is that, unlike weddings for 100 to 200 people, you’ll be able to get your wedding booked in less time.
For those who are anxious and don’t like large gatherings, or for those who simply want a day that’s just like them and that will make them truly happy, shared with those who mean the most to them. The intimate wedding is just the thing for you!
However, the fact remains that an intimate wedding goes through the same stages as any other nuptial celebration! And this is where La Distinction can combine the grandiose with the intimate, while respecting your budget.
- Enchanting site
- Music
- Room
- Decoration
- Catering
- Waiters
- Photographers
- Alcohol
- Wedding cakes
- Fun!
Remember that the real advantage of a wedding with just a few guests is the latitude you have to choose the venue, the menu and the theme! Be daring! Do you want everyone to wear chic yet comfortable clothes? Dreaming of a rustic or other style? A color code (or nothing at all!) Go with your taste.
Do you want to emphasize gastronomy in an environment that’s out of the ordinary? Would you like music to be the focal point of your day? Would you like to create your own decorations? Talk to your consultant, she’ll be delighted to help you.
Do you want to pay for everything for everyone because you can afford it and that’s why you’re limiting the group? Then do it! It’s your day.
The grandiose wedding and its endless list!
Needless to say, the grandiosity of this type of wedding lies as much in the pomp of its preparations as in its endless list. Whether it’s a multi-cultural affair or one involving large, distant families, it calls for an exceptional venue that can accommodate over 200 people in one of its halls.
In this type of celebration, the couple is undoubtedly the focal point. Services need to be booked well in advance, organization takes longer and the day has to be prepared in good time
Choose an enchanting location
More and more, day-long celebrants are bringing future spouses together outside the church. It’s a choice that brings guests together in the same place for cocktails, the exchange of vows, the meal and the evening. It’s a wise choice that allows you to enjoy every moment to the full without having to travel, while the children play outside.
Another important factor to bear in mind when making preparations is the ability of staff and venues to accommodate so many people for the whole day. Your guests need to feel that they’re being looked after, right down to the chauffeur service if need be!
A large-capacity hall
The choice of large-capacity rooms allows you to accommodate your guests, create different seating plans and create a fluid flow between tables. At La Distinction, all our rooms have their own special features.
For example, the Chapiteau is outdoors, the Seigneurie is a popular converted barn, and the Soprano has a lounge area, bar and terrace, all of which are very popular.
Gastronomic catering
Imagine having your own gourmet caterer on site, with a variety of top-quality packages? Look for the possibility of choosing between 3 to 5-course gourmet meals, including a welcome cocktail and a few canapés, and a toast with sparkling wine.
As for the open bar during or after dinner, the packages differ and the choice is yours. Perhaps you’d prefer to focus on the wedding cake or a late-night buffet.
All services in one place
Excitement and stress go hand in hand as you plan your wedding. Sometimes, stress gets the better of you. That’s why consultants like those at La Distinction are there to support you from start to finish. Whether it’s:
- A photographer or videographer;
- Decoration service;
Music (DJ or band); - Evening transportation;
- Entertainment for children;
- Gifts for guests;
- Announcements;
- Or any other extra.
They have the necessary experience to recommend experts or find you the best addresses.
Intimate or grand weddings, the same distinctive service
Let’s be clear. The wedding of your dreams must be just like you. Period. Whether it’s grand or intimate, it doesn’t matter how hard we work to make your day one of the most memorable moments of your life.
You’ll see, by combining your ideas with ours, we’ll create a concept that suits you and that everyone will remember.
Let’s take it one step at a time! Contact us to discuss your ideas.
